From a House to RV Living Full-Time in 100 Days
From house to RV living in 100 days! Read about all the steps we took to make this dream a reality. For years we talked about downsizing and traveling. We wanted to explore and go on more adventures as a family.
Taking a year-long journey in an RV sounded pretty cool. Selling our family home and most of our earthly possessions then launching our road trip in 100 days seemed pretty crazy.
This is how we made it happen. These are the steps we took to go from living in a house to traveling and living full-time in an RV.
Launching a Full-Time RV Living Journey
Once this adventurous vision broke over our family’s horizon (carried by my wife, Julie), we embraced it wholeheartedly.
In truth, we clearly did not comprehend what we were embracing. I guess that’s how it always is with the most amazing things in life, isn’t it?
It was merely an exciting idea without specifics, sacrifice, sweat, dollar signs, struggles, pain, or thousands of exhausting, necessary decisions. The idea was pristine and unchallenged.
Yet the vision lived and expanded.
Our First Step: We Purchased an RV
I spent a full week extensively researching RVs. My family and I stepped foot on an RV lot together in mid-February of that year.
It was a fairly simple and unassuming start to our journey. Especially compared to the mind-bending, ridiculously quick process of shedding much of the life we had known during 21 years of marriage.
It was far too fast without enough planning or number crunching. But, in our blissful ignorance, we shopped and chatted and moved forward as if we belonged. As if we knew what we were doing. Somehow we acted like we were meant to be here and so it worked.
By early March, we had a 26-foot travel trailer parked at an RV storage facility in our Texas hometown. We accomplished Step 1 in less than one month.
The speed at which everything was happening made me question whether it was actually “supposed” to come together. Was this outlandish plan coming really together? Was everyone still on board as much as we were a month ago? And did any of that even matter? As you can tell, I had a lot of questions.
Launching a Full-Time RV Life Can be Scary
This dream had taken on a life of its own. Our doubts and fears and heart-stopping questions still orbited our every move. But move we did. We moved forward, undaunted, into the next phase of our grand vision.
Okay, that’s kind of a lie.
To be more honest, I had a few “shut down” days during the first month. My entire being was on overload and I couldn’t even form sentences. The real truth is I was very daunted.
I would stare and grunt and point. That’s about it.
Julie suggested more than once that we pull the plug on the whole RV around the country idea because I was struggling with the unknowns. I had lots of fears of making a huge mistake.
It was pretty scary and crappy. And that’s the truth you should know about some real hiccups I experienced during those 100 days.
Our House Sold Quickly
I put one foot in front of the other. After countless hours making repairs and cleaning, we had prepared our family home for sale. It was the end of March.
We listed the house on March 31. Within 24 hours we had a full-price offer. That was unexpected.
During that first week there were dozens of showings. By the end of the week, we received and accepted another full-price offer.
A closing date in early May materialized before we had time to process it all. Despite all reasonable odds, our timeline for rolling out of town as summer hit Texas seemed possible.
We literally could not have scripted it any better. Aside from my “mini breakdown” the dream was becoming a reality.
Selling Our Personal Belongings
During the month of April I posted approximately 730 times on social media and Craiglist. What was I doing? Selling all of our random possessions.
My son and I took almost daily trips to Goodwill and other local charitable donation sites. We spent hours offloading the slew of cheap-but-still-useful items our family had accumulated over the years.
I suspect there was a garage sale or many garage sales during that brief time in our lives. Honestly, it’s hard to confirm. It’s all kind of a blur.
Online sales and offline donation runs continued uninterrupted during May. In addition, the number of trips to the local waste treatment landfill facility increased.
Those trips were unfortunate, but unavoidable as we got down to the cluttered reality of our suburban family existence.
We had so many things. We leased the house back from the new owners for a few weeks to give us more time to clear out and prepare for our trip. Organizing, processing, selling, storing all our possessions felt like a full-time job, particularly as our move-date (May 26) was quickly approaching.
Dealing with Possessions and Guilt
At this point, guilt was poking its prickly head into my business. It didn’t seem possible to face the spoils of past compulsive consumption habits without being ashamed. We faced an appalling mountain of otherwise forgotten stuff.
It’s one thing to sell or donate things for other people to get some use out of it. When it’s passed down, at least you can feel some redeeming usefulness in the accumulated crap.
It’s a little salve for the painful and oozing sore caused by years of over consumption.
But, when you are down to the dregs of your possessions and you are up against a “move out clock,” those things have to be moved along somehow, somewhere.
When far too many useful items end up filling a hole in our green earth, despite trying to give it away, it truly leaves a mark n the soul. Just as it does on the earth.
I’m not proud of this and still feel the sting of guilt as I lay it out before you now. But there it is. The honest truth. And I deeply wish not to repeat that consumption pattern in the coming years.
Moving into Our Home on Wheels
Despite all of this mess brewing internally, the work continued. We finally moved into our new “home on wheels” and slept there for the first time on May 26th.
The trailer was parked near my in-law’s home, which was a few miles from our house that now belonged to another family.
We were transported from an idea and barely-formed vision into full-blown reality. Our new reality was five people living in a 200 square foot space. And now we were on the verge of very long-distance road trips.
It’s still a surprise that we made it happen so quickly. The only reason it worked is because our crazy vision was fully embraced by everyone involved.
Our passion and excitement, even when mixed with fear and doubt, forced all the right pieces into place.
We simply brought our engaged selves, whether or not we had all the answers. In fact, we knew we only had a few answers.
So we acted in faith that we were making the right move.
Looking Back
Now I look back after many months, over 4,600 miles, and incredible memories visiting national parks. I recall the beautiful cities across the U.S. and Canada.
And I realize this remarkable adventure reminds me of the importance of welcoming and embracing new visions for my life. Now, and in the future.
Living in an RV with your family for months or a year may not be an exciting dream for you. Maybe just the thought is your worst nightmare. It’s definitely not for everybody.
I believe that most of us in the American culture do need to find a way to break out of our consumption and accumulation patterns. Not just for the inherent benefits that result from such a shift in behavior, but also in order to embrace new adventures.
It is good for the soul. You cannot convince me otherwise.
Your Choices About an RV Life are Yours
So, what about you?
If you want to stop accumulating and start adventuring, the first step is to make the choice. Start crafting your adventure and then take steps to reverse habits of accumulation.
And trust me: Your “adventurous vision” will be much easier to glimpse when the mountains of distracting possessions are out of your way.
It may not happen all at once in a 100-day window as it did for me and my family. Honestly, you probably wouldn’t it to happen that way.
But, if you keep yourself focused on the direction you are moving, and not just the destination, it will be farm more likely to come together. I think you will be far more likely to begin to see your own consumption and accumulation patterns clearly. Then have a chance to change and grow as a result.
Giving Thanks and Dreaming
Give thanks for today. Dream for a better tomorrow.
We should all dream of peace and adventure that we have not yet known. Not just for ourselves, but for everyone with whom we come in contact.
Todd loves a competitive game of table tennis, a breathtaking hike, and exploring new places. He lived and traveled in an RV with his family as they traveled throughout much of the US and parts of Canada. Todd has extensive knowledge about RV travel, safety, and accessories and has shared many of his stories here on TREKKN. When he’s not busy launching and building small businesses, you may find him staring at pictures of Glacier National Park (probably his favorite spot on earth).
Your article was so inspiring to us. We are about
To do the very same thing as you and have the
same fears and apprehensions. It all seems so
overwhelming. We go home in March 2019 from
Snowbirding all winter and begin downsizing and
putting our house on the market. Can’t imagine it selling in a week like yours did but that would be a challenge for sure. We look forward to begin our full time adventure in the fall. Thank you for your inspiration and the boost I needed today to sooth my apprehensions.
Hi Jenny,
I really appreciate your uplifting comment, because it is very important to me to feel that I am helping others to move forward in the face of fear and uncertainty. Along with the overwhelm, those two will never disappear during a major transition like this. But they cannot win, they cannot dictate next steps. Not in this area of life, and not in any other.
Now that we have settled back down into a “normal” life for this next season of life, I look back with nothing but gratitude and amazement at the experiences we had, the struggles we overcame, the lessons we learned, and the beauty that we explored. It all seems very surreal now, and it makes me crave another season of surreal exploration in the future. After all, shouldn’t life be just as much surreal as real? I think we need both. 🙂
We wish you nothing but the very best in your upcoming transition. If I am interpreting your comments correctly, it sounds like you are already very familiar with RVing (as Snowbirds), so you have one less major piece of the transition to navigate (logistically and financially) than we did as RV newbies. Bonus!
Happy Trails to you! Keep on TREKKN.
Todd
We love your humor. We’re planning to hit the road next year. 34 years married and ready to see all of this country. The most difficult part is leaving the Grandchildren. Any help on taming the heartbreak of not seeing the Grandchildren every day? This is the tough part.
Thank you for your article, truly enjoyed reading about your start up on the road.
-The Summers
Hi Cathy! Thank you so much for your comment. We don’t have grandchildren (yet) but it was definitely difficult leaving our college-age daughter behind. I dealt with guilt from traveling and seeing all of these amazing places while she was in school working hard. It was a struggle for her and us! We met quite a few grandparents on our travels who traveled full-time and for them, their families were scattered all over the U.S. so traveling this way allowed them to see their grandkids more. But, if you live close and see them all the time I can imagine that would be tough.
Thankfully technology allows us to interact so much better these days. It made my day when we would FaceTime our daughter. Our middle son is working in Alaska right now, so getting to FaceTime him and hear about life has made missing him a little easier. I wish I had more advice. Let us know when you hit the road!
Cathy,
We too have been married for 34 years and have put feelers out for purchasing a motor home. My husband, myself, and our three poodles. (Two standard—one toy)
I totally tested up when I read your reply. I have revolved my life around my grandchildren and to not see them daily, get their hugs and kisses😩😩😩 I know there’s FaceTime, but man, I’m so excited to begin our adventure (May is our plan) but so sad 😞 😢 at the same time. I wish you the best!!! Maybe we will meet up somewhere along the road!
My wife and I are about a year from full-time RV life .
We have recently purchased a 2019 grand design 2850 MK . We plan on doing some long weekend travels this year .
My concern is the budget .
I know that you work on your podcast but you didn’t mention how you prepared for this financially. If it’s in one of your blogs I have not yet read it .
My wife has been looking for something she can do remotely and earn income with no success .
Hi Rick,
Congrats on the RV purchase and for being so close to your full-time launch date! We’re stationary at the moment but can’t wait to hit the road again.
As far as preparing for this financially, we sold our house and used that money to get started. We also have been earning an income from blogging for quite some time, so we had that established when we hit the road.
Here are a few blog posts on here that I hope will help:
All about blogging:
How we make money: https://trekkn.co/how-do-we-make-money-while-traveling-full-time/
RV Living costs:
How much does RV living cost? https://trekkn.co/rv-living-cost/
Also, I have a friend who is a full-time RVer and she helps people find remote work. She knows way more about this topic than we do and has a fantastic blog and course all about it: https://www.morethanawheelin.com/category/remote-work/
Let me know if you have any more questions!
We did it 2 years ago! Cleaned out our house in Colorado. Sold out house within one week of putting it on the market and bought our 1st RV. We made the huge mistake of buying used thinking we would remodel it but found out after a year and a half, it did not meet our needs. We were miserable. But the thought about setting roots and buying another home just to fill up with stuff again wasn’t an option either since we had grown accustomed to the minimalist lifestyle and most definitely enjoy its rewards! That’s when we went shopping and finally found exactly the floor plan to accommodate our needs and wants. We purchased our 2020 Keystone Outback 341RD and love and are enjoying it completely! Best move ever! And greatest lesson learned. If you decided to go tiny… go big with all the goodies and find something you love! We are so happy with our commitment to our new lifestyle and our new found stomping grounds in Florida! Make life count. Live it! You only get to do it once!
Hi Todd and Julie, my husband wants to sell everything and do the full time RV life for at least 2 years. We actually lived in our 5th wheel for two years on our land before we built our house so we have some experience. One of my biggest psychological hurdles is the thought of getting rid of our household stuff. I read in one of your blogs that you listed your stuff for sale and it sounds like you sold it off bit by bit. Can you expand on that? Was the money you made worth the time and effort to list, sell, ship, etc.?
I love your blog! The examples you give are really helpful! Thanks in advance,
Bernadette
Hi Bernadette! Sorry for the late reply…I’ve been in travel mode for several days and am just getting my feet back on the ground.
Here’s the truth: If we had to do it again, we would sell fewer of our possessions and store more of them. Now, we would definitely still sell quite a bit of our “accumulated crap” that didn’t really have any reasonable future use for sure. But keeping larger furniture items (beds, couches, tables, etc.) would definitely be our chosen path. We absolutely spent just as much, or more, replacing them as we received on the sale side before leaving.
For some reason, I felt compelled to squeeze our stuff into a 5′ x 10′ storage unit…which probably saved me a few hundred bucks over the course of 18 months. If I had chosen to pay a little bit more 0er month for a 10′ x 10′ unit, it would absolutely have saved us some serious headache on both ends of the full-time adventure. Basically, I made it harder on us than it needed to be and I would chalk that up to a bit of “pride” for me that I downsized as much as possible.
My advice? Drop the pride and comparison to what others are doing and just do what makes sense for your family! Whether that’s a 5×10 or a 20×10 storage unit, doing what works for you will pay off in the end. If you’re eyeing a 2 year RV adventure, I think hanging on to those larger items (as long as you actually like them) will be in your best interest.
I hope that helps! If you have any follow-up questions, just let me know. Peace on your journey!
How do I figure how much it would cost to be out on the road?
Great question Alivia. It depends on your lifestyle, type of RV, how much you travel, etc. Every experience will be different for each individual / family. Check out these posts we shared to learn more RV Living Cost and 5 Ways to Cut Costs.