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The Top 5 Reasons Full Time RV Life Can Be Hard

It’s a dream. An adventure of a lifetime. That’s what you most likely say when hearing about our full-time RV life on the road. Am I right?

US map with stickers indicating which states an couple visited in their RV

There’s nothing you can think of that you want to do more and you are just positive that this is the perfect life for you. It would eliminate everything you currently despise or struggle with.

But we both know that our life portrayed online is not the full reality. It is skewed toward the pretty and the positive.

I do my best to “keep it real” by occasionally complaining about an RV repair here, a truck problem there, or the stitches I got on my 22nd anniversary. (I know, very thoughtful of me.)

Spoiler alert: Laundry and taxes still exist on the road.

However, sometimes we need to cut right down to certain considerations that pose a challenge on the road. You need a headline that draws attention to the downside of this great adventure. I bring you those details today. These are a few of the hardest things we deal with while living a full-time RV life.

Hard Things About Full Time RV Life

And so we find ourselves right here, under that headline, ready to lay it all out and show you what you should potentially be prepared for. Let’s rock this:

RV Life Challenge #1: All Your Space is Shared

Fellow introverts be warned: You will likely be challenged with this lifestyle.

In fact, there will be days that you are sure you are going “around the bend” of sanity, never to return again. Just…a few…more…minutes…alone!

Before launching into this lifestyle, I was the ultimate early riser. My weekdays almost always started at 5 or 5:15 am and I would relish the 45-60 minutes of alone time that led the way into my day.

On the weekends, I was still up before 6 am and could sometimes enjoy up to 2 hours of complete silence to open my day. Sigh…

This schedule was my norm even while working from home when I did not have a “full work schedule” to contend with. That’s how much I loved that sacred time of reading, writing, meditating and just thinking in the morning.

That window of time, without another eyeball on me and with walls between me and everyone else in the house, was the oxygen my spirit craved and seemed to survive on.

Hardest things about full time RVing

Your situation may be significantly different

And here’s the deal: Depending on what type of RV you end up with and how many people are in that RV, you could find yourself in a much more “introvert-friendly” situation. You could have your own untouchable and private space where your introversion can thrive.

But for me, this has been one of the most challenging aspects of living full time in less than 200 sf of space with five people along for the ride. So you should be aware.

RV Life Challenge #2: Lost at the Grocery Store

I kid you not: Grocery shopping is probably the most exhausting and mind-numbing task that we accomplish on a regular basis with this lifestyle.

Even back in our bricks and sticks home it seemed to take a lot out of us…which is why we started using the online ordering options. [Insert tear of mourning here.]

But I am not exaggerating (much) when I tell you that each shopping trip at a new grocery store seems to feel like a full day of work! We walk out bleary-eyed and pale, staring straight ahead into oblivion and drooling out one side of our mouths for the remainder of the day.

When you never know what products you’re going to find at a given store, nor where in that store to find what you actually need, it can really sap your mojo!

Pathetic? Maybe. Seems pretty insignificant? I get that. But it’s true.

Couple that “brain drain” with the greatly-reduced size of our refrigerator and you have a recipe for the grouchies. Because now we have to make two reasonably large trips to the grocery store on a weekly basis instead of only one weekly trip.

Hey, I am aware that this stuff is pretty minor in the grand scheme of things. Really, I have not completely lost touch with “reality” and I realize that the trade-off is pretty dang good.

Yes, you will eventually develop some core tips to grocery shopping while on the road. But, let me tell you, it’s a drag and you won’t fully understand the toll grocery shopping takes on a person until you live through it.

Two of our sons standing at the top of Precipice Trail in Acadia National Park, Maine. This hike is really NO JOKE and you should definitely do your research before hitting the trail with kids or with any limiting physical disabilities.

RV Life Challenge #3: Giving Up On Perfection

When I look back on my 20s and 30s, I see a young man determined to create a “perfect” life for his family.

The right cars. Right TV. Right house in the right neighborhood with the right yard and the right schools. You get the idea.

But when we hit the road, I learned to lose control a bit.

I learned to give up that need to check every detail of our next location before we arrived. The fact is, I just couldn’t keep up with checking the details at the pace at which we moved (normally a new spot every 3-7 days or so).

I didn’t need to know whether our RV site was going to be paved or grass or dirt. Or six inches of mud (that was fun!).

I Have Learned To Let Go

In learning that, I began to notice that the situation we often ended up with was better than where my preferences or demands would have led me.

When I let go and stopped demanding, things were routinely and surprisingly better. I found that my plans and preferences had actually seemed to often block the path to better things available out there.

I know, it’s a bit counter-intuitive for our typical  American “take charge” attitude. It’s hard to accept…until you experience it for yourself.

Embrace Your Superpower

Before we sold the house and moved into the RV, I remember listening to a podcast that really helped me to let go of my paralyzing fears and embrace this journey ahead of us.

In the podcast, the gentleman spoke about keeping your focus on the remarkable experience you are creating for yourself and your children, on the horizons that are broadening, and not on the things you don’t know or are uncertain of or can’t control.

But he also mentioned that he had developed what he considered to be a superpower during their time on the road: The ability to go with the flow.

My first reaction? That’s not a superpower!

The more I contemplated it, however, the more it made sense. Again, it goes against the grain of our Western need for control and precision. Maybe that is why it feels so freeing to embrace it.

Can I say that this is now my superpower? Depends on the week you ask me. 🙂 But I sure am a lot closer to it now than I was 13 months ago, and that feels close to perfect.

Quote from book with text 'one tough of nature makes all the world kin'

RV Life Challenge #4: Routine and Schedule

During the periods of my life that I have been able to set my own schedule and/or work from home, I discovered something:

I thrive on schedule and routine.

When I did not have those things imposed upon me, I began to feel dazed, confused and uncertain about everything. My focus and progress seemed to be elusive.

A Life Without Any Routine

So after 13+ months working on the road in a travel trailer moving at least every seven days on average, have we found ways to establish some routine in our lives?

Hardest things about full time RVing

Hmmm….I guess it depends on the week you ask me that. Because each one is honestly different.

More often than not, the week consists of 2-3 days that include a full work schedule and planned productivity (normally the first 4-5 hours of each day) and other days that are much more free form. That has been our typical(ish) rhythm.

Could we do better in this arena and increase our productivity and business results with more structure and routine? I have to say yes.

Do we want to do that? I guess it depends on the week you ask me that. (Sensing a trend?)

Our Routine is Grounded in Staying Flexible

If I had to put the lesson for me into one sentence: Learning to hold routine and schedule loosely, instead of having a death grip on them, has helped me to experience the distance between my productivity and my innate value.

In essence, I can have days of the week that I am far less productive without feeling guilty about it, without completely stressing out about it and feeling like I am somehow less worthy.

Routine and schedule are still necessary components in my life, but they have their place and are not allowed to call all of the shots and determine each step. There is a bigger picture to consider.

RV Life Challenge #5: Lack of Community

Community has played a large role in our life as a family. Most of that community, for our kids and for us, has come through churches that we have attended over the years or through connection with the parents of our kids’ school friends.

At this point in our lives, we don’t have a church or school community to provide that social foundation.

Right now, our 14-year-old son is obviously doing his schooling here in the RV. So no school community to rely on and connect to.

And even if we chose to try and attend church while on the road, which we have not, it would not fulfill that same need for community because of the fast pace at which we move around the country. It would be new people nearly every week.

Extroverts Come in Handy on the Road

Now, we have been able to make some great connections with other families in a couple of spots over this past year. We can trace these connections directly back to the social circle that our 14-year-old “social butterfly” developed. When there are kids at an RV park, he will make friends, even if we are there for only a few days.

The most significant social connections we have made resulted directly from his friendships because we ended up meeting the parents of the friends.

New Friends Can Lead to New Adventures

In fact, we are about to head into Canada for a two-week exploration of Prince Edward Island and Nova Scotia with one of the families we met at a campground. We are excited!! And our son is about to come out of his skin with anticipation of hanging out with good friends for two weeks!

RVing to Canada

Update: You should know that crossing the Canadian border by RV can be an experience in and of itself. We had an absolute blast on our Canada trip! We spent time in PEI and enjoyed an incredible hike in Nova Scotia.

Related Reading: Common Questions About Crossing the Canadian Border by RV

Be Proactive to Stay Connected With Friends and Family

Yes, it is a real challenge and it is definitely hard to navigate those missing community connections for long periods of time. We continue to try and be more proactive in developing those connections, but it can be difficult to keep that focus in the natural flow of life on the road even when the need is there.

Truthfully, other families seem to have done much better in this arena than we have and have maintained better community connections. (Most of those families have been on the road longer also, which could be a major factor.)

And we are getting better at it by plugging into some Facebook communities for full-time RV families where you can reach out to other folks who are in your area.

Acadia, Maine (Credit: Todd Bonner/TREKKN)

Full-Time RV Travel Brings Challenges and Rewards

You could easily guess that the positive side of full time RVing has outweighed these hard things about the lifestyle. If the positive did not outweigh the negative, we would probably not be on the road any longer.

This is exactly what I have been trying to hint at with the pictures included in this post. The positives are significant!

But the challenges, as a whole, are nothing to sneeze at. My hope is that you will factor in these possible challenges if you are considering the full-time RV lifestyle as an option.

We heard this piece of advice before ever hitting the road, and we have found it to be a very true statement. Life is less flat-lined and more dynamic than what you may be used to in a standard existence.

Knowing this ahead of time, and preparing ourselves mentally to experience this reality, has helped to keep us out of “panic mode” when a low period hits. We have learned that we just need to ride it out sometimes and not make any rash decisions at those low points.

We want the absolute best for you with your future plans, and the best situation will come about when you deeply and honestly consider the pros and cons. Each pro and con will affect your family differently, so take our input about the hardest things you will face and make the right decision for you.

Here’s to a happy life…whatever you choose!


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  1. The letting go of control and going with the flow are very good qualities to work on no matter where you live! I have found life to be more peaceful as I lighten up my grip and expectations. Thanks for sharing!

    1. That is so true. I think every person would benefit from embracing those pursuits more and more every day. It is very challenging in our society that pushes us in the opposite direction…there’s no doubt about that. Thanks for your comment!

  2. We don’t RV full time, but we travel and camp a lot. We usually buy our groceries when we get to our destination, and I totally get the part about not knowing what they have or where it is. Some stores like Target and Walmart let you shop online and pick it up. That helps so much if there’s a place like that on your route.

    1. Hey Colleen! Yeah, grocery shopping is tricky. We have tried to order online, but we’re usually either too close to the destination for a decent pick-up time or we’re too far out for the Walmart app to pick up the location I want to shop at. But definitely shopping at a familiar store like that where things are usually in about the same place helps a ton! What area of the country do you RV in most?

  3. For me, the hardest part of RVing, was cooking. RV cooking is a totally different animal than what I was used to at home. I didn’t want to get caught up in grilling all the time so creating simple meals that didn’t require lots of pots and pans, kitchen utensils, spices and sauces and lots of time that I otherwise enjoy, was a challenge. I’m still working on a cookbook that is simple yet diverse enough to not get boring. We are not full time campers since the thought of being a nomad with nowhere to go home to frightens me. We’ve needed doctors and dentists and not having “your” doctor or dentist was stressful. Our first trip (never having been camping before and newly retired) turned out to be amazing. We were gone 96 days, drove 10,000 miles around the USA, and stayed in 55 different campgrounds. We didn’t tow a car so that meant taking our house with us wherever we went. But there is soooooo much to see in this country, we only experienced a tiny bit. We’re between campers right now but hope to get back on the road next summer if our health holds out, All I can say is if you get the chance to do it, GO!

    1. Hi Linda! Yes, cooking is definitely a challenge! When we first started full-timing I thought we would grill all the time, but it ended up being kind of a pain. Your trip sounds amazing! And you’re right, there is so much to see just in the U.S. We wish you the best as you try to hit the road again!

  4. We have been full time RVing for about 9 years now. We are residents in an RV park currently because my wife still has a few more years of work before she can retire. However in our lifestyle we are in the position of an axle on a wheel. We are sitting still watching everyone else come in and out of the park. It’s surprising to see what about RVing people really know. It’s my opinion that about 70% of RVers are “green” or simply don’t care about properly setting up and maintaining thier RV. That was seriously surprising to me. I always help those that ask and depending on the situation even those that don’t ask. I particularly like to talk with The traveler from other countries just staying a few months and renting thier RV. I try to help them and guide them in the right direction so to make thier travels safe and memorable. Full time RVing has all the same responsibilities that living in a sticks and bricks home has. You still need to be financially responsible, you still have to do repairs, maintain insurance, school your kids, ………and the list goes on. The only difference is that you are mobile. You have the choice to move from place to place on a daily basis with no anchor holding you down (unless you are still working at a certain location you cannot leave yet). Enjoy and safe travels.

  5. The grocery store!! I seriously thought I was alone in getting lost in every grocery store I go to, circling around the whole store so many times that I’ve just accepted that what I had in my cart was going to be enough for today lol. All I wanted was tortellini! Any kind! But no, there wasn’t any in the frozen section, and no matter how much I willed it to be there, it just wasn’t. Nor was it in the fresh area. I was back in the pasta aisle (again) to get linguine or something, and I found one, lowly package of the object of the elusive tortellini, and by gosh, I took it. So yeah. I was so tired from all that, went back to the Rv and ate a pb and j,

    1. Yes!! It’s so stressful. You don’t know where anything is and on top of that, in small towns, I always felt like people were staring at us because we weren’t from there. We definitely had more than one cashier say ‘You’re not from here, are you?’ PB&J saved us a time or two 🙂

  6. I love this article and all the comments. I’m 73 and got a cargo van to convert. There’s something about being in the same place that numbs me to the experience. Change opens my eyes. I loved the pictures and the downright awe of what you see and who you meet. Even bad experiences lend a certain drama in the telling. Thank you. Peggy

    1. Everything you said sums up exactly how we feel! We get restless after being in a place for too long. There is so much to see and do! Thanks for stopping by Peggy 🙂

  7. Any ideas on packing to move spots without having a disaster when you stop? I am 2 months into full time and so excited. Looking forward to this new life change. Have set most in canvas totes,command strips and Velcro. Still a little worried, any ideas would be helpful, thank you

    1. Hi Vicki! Congrats on full-timing! A couple of things that come to mind are the refrigerator bar (Camco makes one) and tension rods for the cabinets so if the cabinet doors do fly open, your stuff won’t. Some people also secure their cabinet doors so they can’t fly open. And thanks for a post idea! I’m working on this now and will let you know when it’s done. 🙂

  8. We have not even started yet, but are already members of Good Sam and EscapeesRV club so we get our discounts on gas and Rv parks plus more. Escapees is ALL about community, so if you haven’t joined you might try that. How do you afford to move almost weekly?? We plan on staying at least a month in an RV park before moving to save money on everything. Do you mostly camp?

    1. Excellent points, Kim. If we get back out there full-time we will definitely do some things differently to prioritize community. No doubt about it.

      It was very expensive to move that frequently, and I wouldn’t do it that way again. The only thing that made it somewhat affordable was our Thousand Trails membership which kept overnight costs somewhat under control. Your plan to stay for a month is definitely a more solid one than ours was. 🙂

      We wish you the best in your adventure!

  9. I’d love to hear more about the podcast you mentioned in this article! I know it was written a while back, but if you’ve got any to share that might be helpful for a borderline OCD husband who isn’t sure about making this jump, I would love to hear some recommendations!

    1. Hi Lauren! I completely get where your husband is at. I nearly had a mental breakdown in the run-up to making this decision. There were a couple of days where I couldn’t even form words because the prospect of making this leap was so incredibly overwhelming for my brain. My wife was really patient and gave me space to process and adjust. And I think it might have been her that pointed me to the podcast that helped me turn that corner.
      Unfortunately, I cannot find that podcast any more! I’m 99% sure it was an old podcast done by Tricia Leach of Keep Your Daydream (KYD), but it’s not the KYD podcast that is still available. Maybe she shut the other one down? I just can’t track it down, but I really wish I could.
      But maybe starting with a search on YouTube for “full-time RV fears” or “hardest things about full-time RV living” might pull up some helpful options for him that would address his specific struggles and concerns.
      Also, take a look at a few posts on our site if you haven’t seen them yet:
      Hope this helps just a bit and I wish you all nothing but the best as you navigate this daunting decision! Peace…

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